Saturday, October 15, 2016

Arwyn Week 68: Arwyn Likes Snow - 10/6/2016

Arwyn had her very first retaliation against Leia this week.  Leia was in a bad mood and grumpy about something, so she took it out on Arwyn, kicking or hitting her for no real reason except that Arwyn was trying to show her something.  All of a sudden, Arwyn just looked at Leia like "I'm not ok with that," and she proceeded to walk right over and give Leia's hair a good hard yank!  Go Arwyn!  While I don't want to start a bunch of cat fights, maybe a few more of these situations will help Leia start learning not to take her feelings out on her innocent sister.  Arwyn is enjoying playing with Leia more and more, but they seem to be little conniving trouble makers when they are together. On the one hand we're happy that they are together and quiet, on the other hand, why is it so quiet, what's going on over there??  Arwyn did finally play along as Leia's little baby, and she even cooperated when Leia "put her to sleep" under a blanket on the living room floor.  Arwyn lay there, playing along, for quite some time...so cool!  Arwyn has also started trying to put on her own sunscreen.  She fusses until I give her the bottle and open it for her, then she tries to squeeze it out and rub her face.  It makes her so happy even though she's not actually getting any sunscreen on at all.  But of course she still screams bloody murder when I do it for her, go figure.  I have been trying to ween off the breastfeeding, but Arwyn is making it very difficult by still waking up unpredictably in the middle of the night.  It's not every night, but at least once a week, and so far I can't get her back down without milk.  Josh was finally successful one night, so looks like it's a new job for Daddy to break her of this night milk addiction.  Arwyn had a really bad day at school this week on Thursday; her teachers said she was crying and fussy most of the day.  She even took an extra nap, not waking up until 5:40 pm!  I was worried it would ruin her bedtime, but after I picked her up from school, she proceeded to cry and scream the rest of the evening, even when I was holding her.  We finally gave her some tylenol and put her to bed at her normal time, and she went right down.  The next day she woke up happy as a clam, and low and behold: 2 new teeth!  They are on the top, on either side of the  center ones.  She's up to 6 teeth now (at age 15 months), and I guess these teeth are really bothering her, poor thing!

Leia was a crack-up this week.  We decided to go on a hike to see the little bit of fall foliage that Tahoe has, and Leia got really excited to take pictures of the trees on her iPhone camera.  She's getting a bit better at figuring out how to use more and more of the features, so once she figured out about the camera, she was unstoppable.  I think she took over a hundred pictures that afternoon, mostly the same ones over and over, and rather than taking picture of the fall colors, she was interested in just about any random tree that she saw.  She was just so excited to have a purpose to follow through on: pictures of pretty trees.  After the hike we headed to Squaw to watch the Spartan Challenge, which Josh had shown her videos of ahead of time to get her interested.  So she wouldn't stop talking about how she wanted to "go see the Spor-tans" (with an 'o').  Over and over we would say "Spartans," and over and over she would insist on saying "Spor-tans." It was so funny.  She's driving me crazy by insisting that she "needs" every pair of shoes or pretty dress that she sees on other people, in books, or in movies.  This week (in addition to the ballet shoes) she wanted the Chinese suit and boots that the unicycle acrobats were wearing in the circus video we watched.  She does belong in the circus doing those tricks, but until she gets there, I'm not buying her every cool outfit she sees!  Leia is clearly starting to feel more and more like a "big girl" because she is starting to rebel against wearing diapers to bed.  She throws a big tantrum right before bed, which is just no fun, but the answer is still no.  She hasn't woken up from a whole night of sleep with a dry diaper a single time, and the one time we let her go without one, she of course wet the bed.  Plus, it does seem to have motivated her to give up her bedtime/storytime milk most nights (my suggestion for how to have a less full bladder and a dry diaper), but she still won't use the potty when I tell her before bed.  Oh well, she'll figure it out eventually.  We've also given up fighting her about going to bed at bedtime.  We tell her it's time, and try to get her to lie down, but if she won't, we just leave her, and she goes down eventually.  Unfortunately, she's figured out that nothing will get us back in the room, so this is a good time to do naughty things.  One day she moved everything that was blocking it and went into the closet where I keep a bunch of household stuff (photo albums, camping equipment, etc.) and found the box of clothes and shoes that I was storing until she grows into them.  She also found the two ballet leotards that I was hiding from her.  I was going to give them to her anyway, but she sure was proud of her mischievous "big find".  At least she now has something to wear besides those silly baby ballet tights!  And just in time because she got to attend her very first ballet class at school.  She said it was great, and it gave her all sorts of new ballet moves to practice, which really made her happy.  But the funny thing is, she doesn't seem to want to go back to the class,  but instead just wants to do her own pretend ballet classes at home.  Well, that's a relief to me since I didn't really want her in ballet full time anyway, but also so perplexing considering how much she seems to like it.  Leia's most impressive event of the week was when she decided that she would read her bedtime books to me (rather than me reading to her) because she was the Mommy and I was the daughter.  She read me a book called "Schwatsit!" and my jaw just about dropped to the floor because she literally told the story exactly how the words read on each page.  Some pages didn't even have a picture of each important word, but she still remembered them.  And this is a new book that we haven't read very much.  It was really cool.

The following pictures were taken by Leia with her own camera.

A Day Through the Eyes of Leia

Daddy's beautiful garden outside Leia's front door.


Baby Arwyn sitting next to her in the back seat of the car.

Mommy driving up front.

Leia's lap.

Leia's view out the car window.

Pretty trees on the hike.

Same pretty trees, another shot with finger.

Leia's idea of a pretty bush, dog poop and shirt sleeve included.

We were supposed to be photographing fall colors, but Leia was infatuated with all the regular bushes.

The photographer in action.

Leia and the dog pooping culprits who ruined her perfect nature picture.


Daddy was able to get us girls with the glowing fall colors.

Now Leia found the pretty trees; still got the sleeve though.

It's no New England, but it sure is fun to see those trees glow.

One more nature shot from Leia.

Arwyn was enjoying her second row seating of all this great entertainment.

Watching the tired "Spor-tans" climb up some ladders.

Leia is doing so well at painting inside the lines!

Another example of Leia's brilliant multimedia art...used all the little pinhole cutouts from the stuffed crab sewing art project to make a cool valentines project with her glue stick.

Soft pink feathers are fun.

Soft pink feathers make good ticklers!

Giggle fun with Arwyn!

Hide 'n seek in the laundry hamper...where's Arwyn?

Peek-a-boo, I see you and your crazy hair!

Snuggle time with Daddy to watch the circus.

Purple potatoes from the veggie box, yum!

Leia's Candy Corn Art creation.

Leia showing Arwyn how to "paint cupcakes" with water.

Both girls were very enthralled with their project.

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Arwyn tries to paint her sister when she doesn't like where Leia tells her to paint!

Arr Matey, Captain Leia is at the helm of her ship!

Walk the plank...overboard with you scalleywag!

She did a great job of climbing the rope ladder!

Arwyn serving up some eggs in the medieval castle kitchen.

Arwyn was pretty intrigued to be dining with royalty!

The artist hard at work.

Three princesses all at once...Princess Leia, Princess Rapunzel, and Princess Bell...so fun to play dress up!

So fired up to learn about snow again but for the "first time"! 

Yay, Leia's been waiting for the snow to come back since it all melted last spring!

Not quite enough to eat, but Arwyn's trying anyway.

Apparently there's just something primal about eating snow!

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Arwyn's really getting into this longtime Steelers tradition of waving around your Terrible Towel!

Leia is so fired up to finally have a live person willing to submit to her motherly instincts!

Sweet dreams Arwyn!

Ready to follow in her sister's footsteps and learn about playing in the snow!

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Daddy days are fun because Josh has to keep himself entertained as well as two kids.




Monday, October 10, 2016

Arwyn Week 67: Arwyn the Bubble Monster - 9/29/2016

Arwyn continues to be really interested in dancing this week.  She likes to do her version of the Funky Chicken, with her arms curled up under her arm pits like wings.  It's pretty cute.  She and Leia had a great time dancing to all the traditional Germain music at OctoberFest.  She's drinking way less milk and eating a lot more food, which works out ok since I'm trying to wean.  I just hope we don't have too hard a time getting her to keep drinking enough milk!  She's been loving playing in the sprinklers this week.  She and Leia seem to constantly end up naked in the front driveway running through the water while Josh waters the garden.  Arwyn has been trying to play with her sister Leia more, whenever Leia will tolerate it that is.  Unfortunately sometimes Leia is just not in the mood, and then Arwyn's attempts are seen as annoying.  It was a big haircut week for both girls.  Leia loves Stephanie, so the haircut thing is no problem.  Arwyn was a little harder.  She wasn't scared or pissed so much, just really distracted.  She kept trying to turn her head to look at what Stephanie was doing. The only way we got it all done was that I just gave her millions and millions of little cheek kisses or cheek raspberries, which kept her laughing, distracted, and mostly still the whole time.  Arwyn is starting to want exactly what Leia gets, and makes a stink about it if she doesn't get the same.  I used to be able to give her the plain cereal in the same shape that Leia was getting, and Arwyn would be happy with it (ex. plain Cheerios instead of Apple Cinnamon or Corn Chex instead of Cinnamon), but now she's starting to figure out more and more that Leia has something a little different and she makes a fuss until she gets it.  In fact, she's getting really pushy about anything that she really wants.  Definitely starting to be her own little person, asserting her will and independence.  She likes to try to do stuff herself, so this week, she was marching around the house enjoying her squeezie like a big girl.  All of a sudden, Josh noticed she didn't have it anymore, so he went searching around to see where she had randomly tossed it this time.  Oddly, he couldn't find it anywhere.  After awhile of being completely perplexed, he finally checked the trash can, and there it was.  She figured out on her own what the trash was for, and so when she decided she was done with her squeezie, she tossed it in the trash.  Of course, it wasn't totally empty and it had this special top on it that we clean and reuse, but still, smart little cookie that one is!  Especially because she's never really shown too much interest in the trash can before; this was definitely new.

Leia had a better week in general, but not without some issues.  She's started getting up earlier and earlier, and she comes up to our room to wake us.  I told her she needed to stay in her room until her "Sleep Owl Alarm Clock" goes off, but she doesn't listen.  She keeps telling me she can't sleep, and I tell her she doesn't have to sleep, she can have quiet play time in her room by herself or she can lie in bed with us until 6:20.  She doesn't like these options so she gets upset and tries to pull me out of bed.  So another of our fun Active Ignore sessions starts at 6 am...not the nicest wake up, let me tell you!  I spent the next 15 minutes lying there, getting totally pummeled by a three year old, and trying to pretend nothing was happening to me.  She did finally get  frustrated and moved on to tormenting Josh, and unfortunately he wasn't able to ignore that torture (he actually still wanted to be sleeping while I was just trying to make a point, acknowledging that sleep was done.)  Anyway, the alarm finally ended the torture.  In the effort to be consistent, we are still having to do stuff like this, but it does seem to be less frequent, or she calms down and concedes the loss faster.  Baby-steps.  And now when she does happen to sleep to the right time, she always brings her Sleep Owl to prove it.  Leia and Arwyn had a funny playing moment this week.  They were hanging out in the little house at the park, and they seemed happy and quiet, so Josh let them do their thing.  He kept hearing all these little giggles, and finally his curiosity got the better of him.  He peaked around the corner of the house and found Leia pouring water out of the water bottle into a little cap and then dumping it on Arwyn's head.  "He he, he he."  Luckily they both were giggling about this, and it turned into a fun sprinkler session when they got home.  We've been trying to get Leia to clean more, and the other day she ran into Arwyn's room and cleaned the whole thing up without any problems, saying "That's what big sisters do, they help their little sisters."  It was very sweet, but then when I tried to get her to clean her own room, oh no, "I can't, it's too hard!"  Technically it's not hard since pretty much everything gets thrown in one junk box, but her room is pretty messy and overwhelming, so I do have some sympathy.  And I agree, sometimes it's easier to clean up someone else's stuff than your own, but still not a good enough excuse Leia, more cleaning please!  We had the Shirley's over for dinner one night, and Leia was so excited that Audra was coming to play, but she spent quite awhile listing out all the things she didn't want to share that day.  It was pretty much everything, which I said wasn't possible, just pick a few very special things and that's it.  But it was funny, because for how concerned she was and how much time she spent fussing over it, in the end, she was so happy to have them all over that she pretty much shared everything without issue.


Taking a load off with their tea and their TV...two peas in a pod.

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It's the whole family's favorite song these days, and Arwyn and Leia really get their grove on!

Leia loves getting her hair cut with Stephanie!

She especially loves to have Stephanie give her a braid!

Cool cat taking in the crazy scene at OktoberFest.

Both of them were pretty mesmerized by the traditional German dancing show.

Clear the dance floor, here come Leia and Arwyn!

Loving these crazy tunes!

Audra decked out in her proper German attire.

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Arwyn and Leia feeling the rhythms of the band at OktoberFest.

Fun with sidewalk chalk!

Arwyn is just starting to get her art on!


Nope, we never have any fun around here!

Daddy breaking out the fancy hopscotch footwork!

Arwyn quietly inches her hand in for the sneak attack on Leia's food, but clearly Leia's onto her!

Arwyn's looking pretty excited about her great ride on this hike.

Family hike up Mtn Meadow Trail.

Gotta keep Leia motivated or instantly she thinks she's too tired.

Can't live without those squeezie breaks!

The girls!

NOT interested in leting me take a picture of her post-braid curly hair!


Looks like someone grew...last time I checked, the top of her head was at the level of the handle bars!


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Arwyn learns how to master the game of Cornhole.




She successfully got all the bean bags in the hole, that's how you win right?

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Leia and Arwyn have some fun Daddy Day park antics, and Arwyn shows us that she's learned how to hang!

Sprinkler fun!

Arwyn loves to get right up close and get pelted!

Goofy grin...apparently this is fun!

Scary how good she is at imitating her teacher...leg crossed, head cocked, bossy...is it time to start pursuing an acting career??

School day fun and games with her friends Julia and Jennifer!

Uncle Cody's little fox.



Homemade prom dress by Daddy and Leia...maybe they'll end up opening a fashion company together!

Aggghhhhh, bubbles taste good!

Looks like a bubble kiss.


Nice beard, maybe you should start competing with Daddy!



Have you ever seen such a great big happy smile?


Smash face, I see you!