Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Arwyn Week 38: A Mid-Winter Swim - 3/10/2016

Arwyn has always loved standing up, but she's taken her love to a whole new level.  Now that she can get up on her own, that's all she wants to do, and when we hold her up and help to learn to take steps, you can see the excitement in her eyes, and she actually gets angry and upset when you let her go and stop helping her!  She just wants to be up and walking!  I even found her standing up in her bed after waking up for the very first time!  And right on cue, with all this new physical development, came what I think might be the 8 month sleep regression; she simply could not calm down, get comfortable, or fall asleep.  Several nights in a row I was up several times a night for two whole hours trying to get her to go back to sleep.  Oh so exhausting!  Luckily she got herself back to normal after only a few nights.  She's also just starting to figure out "creeping," or as Josh and I prefer to call it, "bouldering." She was able to step around 3 of the for sides of her music table.  She's still pretty slow and calculated, so at the moment, creeping is a more accurate description.  Arwyn's other love is giving me raspberries and kisses on my cheek.  It is so cute to see her look at you after she does it; clearly she loves it so much when I do it to her, so she wants to do it to me and make me happy.  She just gets a huge grin and watches for your reaction.  Not to mention how proud she is that she's figured out how to do it herself.  I also took Arwyn swimming in a big pool for the first time.  She's been in our hot tub a few times, but not in quite a few months, so she had probably forgotten a little.  Anyway, she absolutely loved it.  She was playing with balls, kicking her legs, going after Leia, and having a grand old time.  Finally, we did have success with our new squeezies; she seems to be happy to eat all the stuff I put in them and actually has a small smile on her face while eating and leans in to have more bites.  Yay, success!

Leia had a pretty tough week, and as a result, I did as well.  We stepped up our potty training efforts and went no diaper for 2 days in a row.  She was very motivated to do it, and when I warned her she needed to try to remember she needed to use the potty, she kept insisting "don't worry Mommy, I won't pee!"  Well, she did pee, and all over the place.  The frustrating part was that I would ask her to sit on the potty since she hasn't gone in awhile, but she would just refuse, continuing to insist that she wouldn't pee.  It was like she thought she could avoid both diapers and potties by just not ever peeing, but unfortunately her body didn't cooperate.  Anyway, the whole thing put quite a bit of stress on both of us, which caused her to transfer her stress into very bad behavior.  Constantly testing her limits and kicking and hitting when she didn't get her way. Plus Josh was out of town at some races so I didn't have any help or support.  Not a fun week.  I know it's partially related to the potty training, but I'm also ready to reevaluate our behavior management plan, be more consistent, and earn a little respect!  Before Josh left, he did get her to help him chop potatoes and cook up a yummy stew, and we had some fun with creative attempts at getting her to eat new foods.

A dry-haired version of her new favorite mermaid hairdo...nice improvising Mommy!

She looks so cute when she actually lets us brush or put up her hair!

Came home from school to a fancy candlelight dinner with Daddy!

Heart-shaped rice pilaf face and "Leia" spelled out in broccoli...it was a valiant attempt, but she still wouldn't eat the rice.  She did insist on candlelight meals for the rest of the week though!

Working on all sorts of new kneeling and squatting positions these days.

Another good stand-up!

Password = Arwyn



Fired up to show off her stand-ups at Nana and Poppy's house!

Aw, is she sweet or what?

Staying safe and smashing face to get a closer look at the pool!

Psyched to be romping around in a big pool again...and yes, she remembered her swimming skills!

Arwyn and Jan doing a little floating and kicking!

Didn't want anything to do with these overalls until Arwyn started wearing hers...

Love how the sun is lighting up those sweet soft cheeks!

Already loves to smash block towers!


Working on balance!


I love how much she already looks up to her big sister and how much Leia loves to take care of her and show her how to do stuff!

Happiness and pride.


First time standing up in bed!

Guess she got a little impatient waiting for Mommy and had to take matters into her own hands!


"I'm just so happy I could drool!"

Creeping around the table = first solo steps!

Patiently enduring the first of what is sure the be a lifetime of creative hairdos by her talented big sister!

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Arwyn Week 37: First Solo Stand Up! - 3/3/2016

Arwyn had a very exciting week with many developmental milestones.  The biggest one being that she figured out how to push herself up to standing on a small foot stool!  The small foot stool is just the right height for her to get some leverage while on her knees.  She hasn't quite figured out how to get up by grabbing something that is above her head though.  Also, once she's up, she's much better at standing, and can even move her feet or take a small step while supporting her own weight.  It's really fun to watch her figure out this whole standing thing; she concentrates so hard on her tactics, and when she actually figures out her best plan of attack and succeeds, you can see how excited and proud she is.  Arwyn is also on the move a lot more these days, however, she mostly decides to crawl when she wants be closer to someone who has moved away from her, or to get a toy that she wants.  She still doesn't really go big distances, and doesn't seem to care about exploring too much, she's pretty much content with learning about all the cool things that are already around her...I'm thinking she's more of a tinkerer.  On the eating front, we are finally doing much better.  One reason is because we've been practicing more, but also we figured out that she hates spoons!  When I gave her pureed mango with a spoon, she refused to eat, and gagged a bit, but when she sucks on the mango in the mesh food holder, she loves it.  Plus, anytime she eats food via a squeezie, she's happy as a clam.  I ordered some refillable squeeze pouches for her to try, so we'll see how that goes.  Unfortunately, Arwyn may have had a bit of a reaction to the pears we gave her the other day, so now I'm back to being careful about what I give her and when, and hopefully that pear thing will turn out to be a false alarm.

Leia, she's in a testing her limits phase.  She had started acting reasonable for awhile, but all reason is lost now.  Her favorite phrase is "Just one time, and that's it!" for anything she wants, whether it's one more book, one more TV show, one more anything.  Of course, when we give her one more, it's the same thing all over again, "Mommy, just one more, and that's it."  Even when I tell her we already had the one more and that's it, she just repeats herself again.  It's all rather infuriating.  Her other favorite phrase is, "That's not fair!" and as you can guess, this one comes right after we say no the the one more time.  Nothing is ever fair for her, it's a tough life!  There must have been more cute or funny things, but the only one I can remember is how she's been into doing her hair this week.  She calls it her "Mermaid Pony," and basically when it's all wet or full of shampoo, she likes to twist it up on top of her head like a French twist.  It's a very cute do, and she can do it all by herself in the bath.  She had me do it when it was dry once too, and I totally improvised, but we thought it turned out great!  It was nice that I was actually allowed to make her hair look nice rather than her normal screaming at me to get away!

Fun ski day ripping around with my old coach Trevor who is back in town for awhile!


Love that sweet little face.

So many fun things to do in this bed!

Mad scientist?!

Crazy hair day?!

So eczema lotion on the scalp actually works better than any hair gel...crazy kid loves her new do!

Side view really gives you a better appreciation for the awesome height we achieved here!

"I have great hair and I'm happy!"

Sorry, just can't get enough of this gravity defying feat of awesomeness!

"Ok Mom, last picture, then we shampoo..."


Stay tuned...a little Leia POV GoPro footage coming to a computer near you..


A little hard to see, but this little weirdo (aka Leia) is fast asleep with a plastic bucket on her head!

Arwyn on the move!

Sitting up strong, and there's the tongue, so you know she's having fun!

Password = Arwyn


Biting the tongue and concentrating hard on her next move!


She was so proud and fired up!

Mini Me hanging out in the Mommy robe and slippers!


And she's up!

Legs sliding out...Houston, we have a problem here!

"Ok, I'm up on this small stool, but now how do I get it out of the way so I can get on the tall one??"  Life's little puzzles!

Peek-a-boo, I see you!

Checking out the Transue Beach.

A little Polar Bear swim for Leia...yep, it's cold!

It's a miracle...she's actually smiling for a picture!

Relaxing in the sun after a nice cold swim...too bad she picked a shady spot!

This one always smiles...so many cool things to play with!

And finally a smile out of her while sitting in the high chair and eating...my girls are addicted to squeezies!

A walk to Nana and Poppy's is always a good time, especially in my new ski outfit from Noura Fakoury!

A sweeter face does not exist, I could just sit around and kiss it all day long!

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Arwyn Week 36: Poor Sick Baby! - 2/25/2016

Poor Arwyn had a fever this week.  It wasn't very high, only about 99.8, but you could tell she really felt miserable all week, even after the fever subsided.  As Poppy likes to say, we didn't see too much tongue this week.  On the sleep front, Arwyn had mostly been sleeping through the night until she got sick, but now it's all over the map again.  And I don't think I properly documented it, but Arwyn figured out how to go from lying to sitting up on her own around Week 33, and has been getting more and more proficient ever since.  New this week, however, was that she actually started sitting up sometimes while in bed!  And the funny story about Arwyn this week was that her teacher Desiree came up to me and said Arwyn makes her think of a little Mother Theresa because she always has her hands clasped in front of her face and she's always so peaceful and calm, and it radiates to those around her.  Obviously I'm not religious, but everything she said it true; Arwyn does have a strong personality, but in contrast to Leia, it's a personality of quiet determination and a she exudes a happy, peaceful but busy presence.  She loves to tinker and explore everything around her, and the discovery process gives her great satisfaction  While she's always up for an adventure, she's also happy right where she is because no matter where that is, the world around her always has so much to offer.

Leia too, has always been drawn to Arwyn's infectious happiness, and she even gets worried when Arwyn has a temporary lapse: "Mom, Arwyn's not smiling. Smile Arwyn, smile!"  And this week, when Arwyn had to stay home from school for a day, Leia was totally traumatized. "No Mommy, Arwyn has to come to school. She can't stay home, I'm going to miss her."  It was so cute!  Leia has continued her streak of sleeping in late and taking long naps. I'm getting more convinced that she must be growing, but she hasn't grown out of any outfits overnight, so who knows? 

Little sickie Arwyn, falling asleep in the comfort of her Poppy's arms.

With Leia asleep, Emmett was excited to actually be the "big kid" who got to push his little cousin around in her car.

Running around and laughing like crazy...so fun to emulate your older cousin!

Home sick from school and hanging with Poppy.

Finally feeling a little bit better...ready to show us her tongue and play with her toys again!

So much thick beautiful hair!

Pet monkeys sure are pesky when they like to sleep on your head!

Leia loves reading to her baby sister.

Are these two the cutest or what?

Cutest little bunny!


Whether it's clothes or hats, Leia is all about layers!

The swing is still clear and dry in the middle of February!

Hot, beautiful spring day in the middle of February...great day to be outside!

Just up from her nap and not too sure yet about this little adventure.

Hanging out in Leia's water soaked house and making plans with her friends...

Had to "call" Ben about their ski date this Saturday, and Aunt Jen about her visit next month.

After being told that night skiing was not an option, this happened...